Anonymous asked:
Hello, lately I've been noticing me & my best friend are drifting apart...We're in different groups of friends so we don't hang out in person much. But online we used to talk lots, but that's decreasing. I talked to her about this and she says we'll be best friends no matter what, even tho we hang out with different people. Recently, I striked up a convo with her and it felt different :c. I know I can't force anything to happen, but what can I do? She really gets me and I don't wanna drift.

Hey anon,
Friendships to tend to drift which is sad but maybe you should try speaking to her again about it. You could also try merging your friendship groups? That way you’d get to spend more time with them aswell as your other friends. One thing I would try is to arrange stuff with just the two of you- maybe hang out, go to the cinema, have a night in something like that where you can chat and catch up and it might just spark up the friendship again! Good luck :) Love H x















Anonymous asked:
i saw new scars on my best friends wrist yesterday. she used to cut, but had been doing good for a while. i really want to help her in any way i can, but i am unsure of how to approach the situation. what can i do?

Hey anon, it’s great that you want to help your friend to get better however obviously she’s having a hard time at the moment so you need to tread carefully. Have you spoken to your best friend about it? It might help her knowing she has someone to talk to and someone who is prepared to support her through the hard time she is currently having. I’d also suggest talking to a trusted adult as they will know more things that will be able to help your friend, one thing with this is your friend may feel you broke her trust however you are doing it because you want the best for her and an adult will be able to give her more support and help than anyone else for example a teacher or a parent. Really all you can do is just show her you’re there to support her and that she isn’t alone. Love H x